Dave on 12 Mar, 2026 16:36 in Rest awhile in our Lounge
KerryD on 12 Mar, 2026 10:07 in Rest awhile in our Lounge
.Because there is a lot of 'WHY" it very often develops into WHY me.Unfortunately in most cases 'why me' is a question with no answer.I write to a lady who's 'why me's' totally ruin her life, she's stuck with questions and seemingly no answers, a victim mentality rules her. The only way out of 'why me' is 'what now.'You don't heal by replaying what hurt you, you can decide to stop carrying it, what happened probably can not be undone and certainly not by continually revisiting in your mind.Is there a path forward, we accept some things , maybe a lot of things seem to have no reason.Is it possible to accept the hurt and move forward to heal??I'm sure as you read this as a christian you can fill in with scripture stuff I could have written the chapter and verse.Until she can release those hurts, there is no peace.She is also Autistic which compounds her problem. I would value any wisdom and if the Lord lays her on your heart for prayer.I can't think of much that might help you; but I know that many people with a victim mentality get attention that way and don't seem interested in doing much to solve their problems.
Dave on 11 Mar, 2026 16:10 in Rest awhile in our Lounge
.Because there is a lot of 'WHY" it very often develops into WHY me.Unfortunately in most cases 'why me' is a question with no answer.I write to a lady who's 'why me's' totally ruin her life, she's stuck with questions and seemingly no answers, a victim mentality rules her. The only way out of 'why me' is 'what now.'You don't heal by replaying what hurt you, you can decide to stop carrying it, what happened probably can not be undone and certainly not by continually revisiting in your mind.Is there a path forward, we accept some things , maybe a lot of things seem to have no reason.Is it possible to accept the hurt and move forward to heal??I'm sure as you read this as a christian you can fill in with scripture stuff I could have written the chapter and verse.Until she can release those hurts, there is no peace.She is also Autistic which compounds her problem. I would value any wisdom and if the Lord lays her on your heart for prayer.
Dave on 10 Mar, 2026 19:01 in Prayers and Praise.
Dave on 10 Mar, 2026 15:55 in Prayers and Praise.
KerryD on 10 Mar, 2026 02:31 in Prayers and Praise.
Mike Waters on 09 Mar, 2026 11:42 in Prayers and Praise.
Mike Waters on 09 Mar, 2026 11:31 in Prayers and Praise.
KerryD on 09 Mar, 2026 01:14 in Prayers and Praise.
Dave on 08 Mar, 2026 19:34 in Prayers and Praise.
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